Durbs...yeah, all wicks for that should be Coleman or naptha for expediency sake. Touch the unlit wick to get fuel on your hand, run the flames of the lit end near your hand and it will ignite...you can also tap your hand with the lit and have the flame transfer. Ignite whatever off of this, close your hand wipe it on your leg or arm...whatever. It is actually one of the entry level pooling tricks, the first one I learned in fact.
Peregrine, turn your staff or hold it so the bolts face away, they won't hit you then.
Also, if you grab the unlit and then pass the flame over your hand, you won't even touch a burning bolt.
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